Results & Praise
What It’s Like to Work with Alec
What men experience in the container
Most men come in stuck in their head or unsure how to move forward.
Here’s what they experience.
What men experience in the diagnostic
Most men come in stuck in their head or unsure how to move forward.
Here’s what they experience.
From a founder navigating a major transition
Feel like I’m moving through a really important life turning point.
Thank you Alec, you played a timely and decisive role in this. I’d love to have more of my teammates work with you in the coming years.
I didn't know what to expect.
That was awesome. The assessment is beyond what I expected. I'm like.. DAMN! I got a TON out of it.
I realized I have blindspots in how I show up.
Oh my god. Crazy. Well done. Wow. This was so simple yet so insightful.
“Oh my god — I have to go back and rewatch the entire recording — there were so many gems of wisdom in it. I could actually see what’s been holding me back. I got a ton out of it — especially around how I’m thinking about what I’m creating.”
“I realized how much anxiety I’ve been operating from — it’s been my baseline.”
If this resonated…
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"One of the best, if not the best, experience I've had as far as dating and self improvement."
"I used to be fearful of tension. Now I go out and seek it."
Rated 5 out of 5
"Life changing really is the most fitting description."
Wing Ma
Alumni
Rated 5 out of 5
"By the end of the container, a whole new world opened up for me. I’m way more bold, assertive, and outgoing than ever before."
When I took the masculine experience, I was terrified to approach a girl at a nightclub. It was so far out of my comfort zone that my ego had me convinced that I might die if I did so. Turns out, I didn’t die, but I did have some cool experiences and learned a lot about myself. When I did the container, I started out very resistant, struggling, and making excuses. But Alec held space really well. He’s very intuitive, and met me where I was at, while consistently moving me towards my goals. The changes were subtle at first, but by the end of the container, a whole new world opened up for me. I’m way more bold, assertive, and outgoing than ever before. I’ve also gotten girls’ numbers, had dates, ... and some wild experiences. It all seems normal now, and well deserved. More importantly, I feel like more of a man, a real man, and that matters a lot to me. I’m extremely grateful for the impact he’s had on my life.
David S.
Alumni
Rated 5 out of 5
"Alec helped me bust through old limiting beliefs and fortified into my mind what is possible."
The (Masculine Experience) with Alec was great. It was three jam packed days where Alec guided me into taking the next steps into becoming a better, improved version of myself. Alec helped me bust through old limiting beliefs and fortified into my mind what is possible. I had great results in approaching that I never had before and by the end of the workshop, it was clear, as night and day, that I was on another level. I felt that Alec was there with me the whole way and he had my back whenever I needed it. Many thanks.
Hai Do
Alumni
Rated 5 out of 5
"I had all the pieces already, but Alec helped me bring them together, while cleaning up old bad habits"
It’s exciting to work with Alec. He’s experienced, perceptive, and skilled… This is a great program for guys who are new to this work, but also for guys like me who’ve been in this space for years and need a fresh set of eyes to find subtleties they’ve missed. Coming into the weekend, I had all the pieces already, but Alec helped me bring them together, while cleaning up old bad habits… The best part was getting Alec’s honest reflection on wins I would have dismissed if I were on my own: taking the two hottest girls at a bar back to a quiet table while the other guys stared in jealousy; sticking through an initially awkward conversation and emerging with a phone number. It’s hard to know on your own whether you’re showing up in full, and Alec will not bullshit you about your shortcomings or withhold praise when you deserve it.
Sam Frank
Alumni
Rated 5 out of 5
"I walked away with personal power for long-term dating. This course encouraged me to honor myself."
Prior (to The Masculine Experience), I was boundaryless with women. It was clear that I was letting women lead and I didn’t understand what leading looked like. The women in my life were always in a position of power over me.
Alec provided a foundation of understanding, so I knew what women needed. The framework allowed me to see where I wanted to set my own boundaries and of course, I started seeing results. The girl who had friend-zoned me, was now texting me daily, offering to take me out on dates, and offering to pay. More importantly, I walked away with personal power for long-term dating. This course encouraged me to honor myself.
The coursework is straightforward and easy to understand.
Daniel Pendergast
Alumni
Rated 5 out of 5
"Awesome program and a game changer. Thanks Alec"
"Working with Alec is amazing, his ability to see your potential and push your forward in a progressive way that allows you to see the potential and growth for yourself is incredible, along with his clear cut advice fit for your current dating status that you can apply immediately. I myself have done things in the program that I thought I’ve never do while approaching women, opening up my eyes to a whole new perspective, there’s no way you’re going to leave as the same person you came in as. Awesome program and a game changer. Thanks Alec"
Onal Dorgis
Alumni
Rated 5 out of 5
"Alec is a dedicated coach. He made all this happen. I felt very secure and taken care of. So worth it."
"I’ve been doing this work for about 3 years now. But here is what set the Masculine Experience apart from anything before. All my life I’ve never truly felt attractive. The times I did, have been rare and momentary. But when I was working with Alec, I was able to feel attractive consistently. I was attracting women instead of going after them. I was being approached. By girls and guys! It was different. This has never happened to me! I felt what it meant to be “that” guy. When I did approach women, I didn’t need to say much. It was as easy. I even picked up a girl at a bar that I kissed within the hour. But then I needed to bail because she was being clingy. She was being clingy! What a role reversal. I can go on and on.
Alec is a dedicated coach. He made all this happen. I felt very secure and taken care of. So worth it."
Gurbir Tur
Alumni