2-hour session · Allow up to 3 hours
Through movement feedback, this two-hour private session makes visible how you meet expectation, uncertainty, freedom and possibility—and the patterns shaping how you move through life.
You leave with greater clarity about what has been shaping you—so new choices become possible.
Most men can't unsee it once they do.
Most men come to me stuck in one specific area. A relationship that isn't working. A business that's stalled. A version of themselves they keep running into no matter what they try.
Through movement, we explore the deeper patterns shaping how you relate to uncertainty, pressure, expectation, expression and possibility. Then we sit down together and watch it back.
What comes up in that recording is never just about the one thing you came in with. It's your story about yourself. Your story about people, about life, about what you're capable of. The way you actually show up, not the way you think you show up in your head.
A clear read on whether this work, and whether I'm the right person to do it with
The story underneath the pattern, the one you've been running on without knowing it
The default way you're showing up, not just in this one area, but everywhere
This isn't a session that leaves you with homework and a worksheet. It's a session that leaves you seeing yourself the way other people already see you.
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The Diagnostic stands on its own. It is also the doorway into any deeper work with me; every man I work with begins here. Before we finish, we’ll discuss what became visible and whether continuing together makes sense. There is no pressure or obligation to take another step.
Is this therapy?
No. I'm not a therapist, and this isn't a clinical process. In fact we hardly need to talk. Your relationship to life and the patterns you are living inside of are embodied. We think that they are only in our heads and need to explain them verbally but movement is a faster and more direct way to see what's going on.
I'll record you moving in a few different ways. The movements are simple and take under 5 minutes. You'll sit down, we'll look at it together. As we watch it back, I'll give feedback about what I see and experience. What comes up is usually less about that one situation and more about the pattern underneath it.
This isn't a surface-level conversation. Throughout the two hours, powerful insights arise though very simple movements. Through witnessing your own body move, you will discover all of the patterns that keep you stuck. I ask you to block three hours so neither of us feels rushed.
That's common, and it's usually because the movement stayed in your head. This is different. You'll see yourself, not just talk about yourself. It's often said this two hour session is worth months of therapy.